"There must be more to life than just being really really really ridiculously good looking." -Zoolander

Over the past two days, I've been hearing lots of compliments about my physical appearance. All from men. This is the most common compliment I hear and quickly forget. I also wonder about men who use flattery too much. I wonder if they're insecure. I wonder if they're using it hook insecure women. Of course there is a huge difference between genuine compliments and flattery. The best kind of compliments are the ones that express true understanding and sincere appreciation of who you are. I have to say that I remember the ones I receive from children the most: "I love you. You are very nice to me." It warms my heart and sometimes even brings me to tears.